"Has my husband been in contact with another woman? If yes ,did he end it? If he was talking to another woman did it go further than a married man should go?"
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Dear Ms. J,
Thank you for this very important question you got here about your husband Ben. So, you are very concerned right now if Ben is having an extra marital affair. In order to find out what's truly happening, I have drawn some cards for you, as follows:
8 of Pentacles + Queen of Cups + 8 of Swords + 6 of Swords + 9 of Pentacles + 10 Swords + 4 of Wands
What is the situation?
The 8 of Pentacles indicates passion and hard work which could mean that Ben right now is working hard to reach his goals and ambitions in life. This could also mean that both of you are working hard on every side of this marriage and are trying to make it work the way both of you may have wanted it to be. This relationship is all about ambitions and it could be very promising if handled with trust and loyalty to each other.What is blocking?
The Queen of Cups indicates a strong presence of a woman in this situation that possibly could act as a hurdle in this relationship. She is full of passion and very sensual in nature but has no desire of deeper commitment. All she wanted is to satisfy her sexual desire and when she gets what she wants, she will have no other desire but eventually leave. She may probably be after sex and money and when she’s got what she wants she’s off on her way to find another victim.
What may have caused this problem?
The 8 of Swords indicates that you may have tied up yourself on a tree and covered your eyes with a blind which could mean that you may have already felt what’s happening with Ben earlier but you may have ignored the signs. You may have also denied some of Bens wishes in your relationship which may have been able to lead him to some undesirable actions. You may have suspected this quite sometimes already but you may not have confronted him much about this just to avoid further conflicts.
What happened in the recent past?
The 6 of Swords indicates movement which could mean that you may have already made several decisions in the past to leave this relationship if ever things go wrong. Your whole soul is searching for a peaceful and harmonious relationship and you may have sometimes felt that Ben is not working hard to give you this.
What is at the present situation?
The 9 of Pentacles indicates satisfaction in life which could mean that practically speaking, although you suspect and may have some troubles in your mind about Ben on having some extra curricular affairs outside marriage yet still you are happy and contented on your life with him in particular with the financial and practical side of life. Ben may have been doing as best as he can to give you comfort, joy, and satisfaction in life.
What’s coming up next?
The 10 of Swords signals the end of your sorrows and problems with regards to this situation. There is probably going to be some kind of confrontation between you and Ben about this problem and could ultimately bring this problem to an end. It looks like that Ben is very much in love with you and very much committed to this relationship and may not want to compromise this marriage for any other things that could break it apart.
Outcome:
Overall the result is very promising. This problem will just pass by including that other woman. She is nothing but a fling in Ben’s life, but you really should seriously confront him on this matter and to give him an ultimatum. He has to promise you that he has to settle this problem once and for all or face the consequence.
This year may end up to be a more stable and comfortable life for the two of you when these things gets resolved.
Hope that this reading has given you comfort and courage to face this problem in order to save your marriage. Communication is the key word here. So, maintain proper communication with Ben and try as much as you can to give of yourself whatever your better half needs in life. Remember that marriage is a give and take process!
Please let me know if you have anything to clarify more on your reading and I’ll do my best to help. Let me know.
Best of luck,
Celestian
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